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Middle-aged dogs don't feel the need to abandon you for a younger owner.
LOL, you are so far off sister. I guess you have to be a man to know what we all are about. Many men are faithful because they are afraid to lose what they have, no courage or simply too pendejo to take a risk. If he can get away with it clean and if the girl is worth the risk, he will go for it. Case closed.
AZB
AZB is right on point with this, most men will cheat if there is no chance it will come back to them. They choose not to cheat out of fear of losing their family or bank account or both.
Lalla,
Why do you refer to having sex with someone other than your partner cheating?
It is merely having sex with someone other than your partner - you would be crazy to tell your partner if you love them and do not want them to be upset.
Many Women have this inbuilt need to freak out about men having multiple partners.
Many men have this inbuilt need to freak out about having only one partner.
They are different.
For example, men enter relationships praying that the woman will not change - they invariably do change.
Women enter relationships with a plan about how to change their men - they invariably do not change.
Men generally like having multiple partners - women less so in my experience.
Big deal - why is having sex with more than one person wrong?
WOMEN! - YOU CAN'T LIVE WITH THEM - PASS THE BEER NUTS!
LMFAO or their balls!!!
I swear you guys give men a bad name! Eso no es verdad! THere really are men that don't want to cheat. Some men are programmed to care, true story!!
I LOVE IT.... All you guys love to talk about how you pass from one chica to the next and have this CRAZY variety of women, hot young girls willing to do anything and your the mack daddy....
yet your the FIRST ones to fall hard face first for the one chica that is most likely playing you (like you think your playing the rest) and then she dumps you for the next daddy with cash. Than YOU continue to say "see thats why I date around cos its not worth it" when in reality your jaded because that one girl you did fall for , HARD, dumped you.
Why can't men admit that the reason the become this way IN THE FIRST PLACE is because someone hurt them???? Men are NOT predestined to be dogs, or cheats or mujeriegos, its of course NATURAL to look and think others besides your partner are attractive, but not everyone wants to cheat or not settle down. ALL the men I know that are this way, BECAME this way becuase they were hurt!
SOOOO, if you want to date around, fine, your choice, and the women you are dating's choice, But dont make all men sound like DOGS
Men think we don't understand women, but can they understand us? Seems like women are trying to convert men into perfect obeying women.
This seems to be working to some extent in USA and Europe. but fortunately when the same men come to DR, they revert back to their natural behavior.
AZB
LOL, you are so far off sister. I guess you have to be a man to know what we all are about. Many men are faithful because they are afraid to lose what they have, no courage or simply too pendejo to take a risk. If he can get away with it clean and if the girl is worth the risk, he will go for it. Case closed.
AZB
You know what, I have never wanted a "yes" man or a guy that loses himself just because he is with me. I obviously fell in love with that person, not with the person I THOUGHT i could turn him into, thats awful.
My husband told me something when we were dating, very early on..."i never want to lose who I am, nor do I expect you to be in my shadow, I am my own person and expect you to always maintain who you are".....
I dont want to be "la esposa de". I am a partner and vice versa, and I expect for my husband to have his outings and enjoy guy time, you can ask him, i constantly encourage him to go out (he went to DR in october with friends for the FIRST TIME, with out me, with me egging him on), why? not cos I am a pendeja, but becuase I want him to have fun, i am not selfish. ANd heck, if he's going to cheat on me, he will do it on one of his home depot trips you know what i mean?
Life is life, and shyt happens, and you cannot CONTROL your partner thinking that they wont stray, you can only hope that there is mutual respect and understanding and it doesnt need to happen. Or if you have an open relationship, works for you.
Now, as I was saying...... whose going to take the first shot with me??
How did you get on the subject of men are dogs and cheaters? Again, why do you consider a man a dog who doesnt want to settle down? If a women is single and doesnt want to settle down you call her a independent women,and a man is called a dog.I been around enough men in my lifetime! I HONESTLY believe that there ARE men out there that ARE FAITHFUL and have no desire to CHEAT becuase they are happy with what they have, EVEN if the opportunity lands on their lap to cheat!
doesnt mean they are PENDEJOS or PAJAROS or afraid to get caught, some men actually THINK with their heads, not their NUTS and take into account that they wouldnt want something like that done to them so they dont do it. THERE ARE PEOPLE PERIOD THAT BELEIVE IN "TREAT OTHERS HOW YOU WANT TO BE TREATED."
and how is cheating courages??? i think its COWARDLY, because YOU DONT HAVE THE BALLS TO TELL YOU PARTNER YOU WANT TO BE WITH OTHER PEOPLE, THATS COURAGE, NOT CHEATING!!!! ANYONE CAN CHEAT REALLY IF THEY WANTED TOO, ITS HAVING THE COJONES TO SAY "LOOK, I WANNA TRY SOME OF THAT OTHER PIE".
I'm not naive and dont ever say that this person or that person would never cheat, BUT i do know that there are people that know right from wrong, and deceiving is wrong and some care and some dont... THATS the difference, having a concious.
My husband told me something when we were dating, very early on..."i never want to lose who I am, nor do I expect you to be in my shadow, I am my own person and expect you to always maintain who you are".....
You know what, I have never wanted a "yes" man or a guy that loses himself just because he is with me. I obviously fell in love with that person, not with the person I THOUGHT i could turn him into, thats awful.
My husband told me something when we were dating, very early on..."i never want to lose who I am, nor do I expect you to be in my shadow, I am my own person and expect you to always maintain who you are".....
I dont want to be "la esposa de". I am a partner and vice versa, and I expect for my husband to have his outings and enjoy guy time, you can ask him, i constantly encourage him to go out (he went to DR in october with friends for the FIRST TIME, with out me, with me egging him on), why? not cos I am a pendeja, but becuase I want him to have fun, i am not selfish. ANd heck, if he's going to cheat on me, he will do it on one of his home depot trips you know what i mean?
Life is life, and shyt happens, and you cannot CONTROL your partner thinking that they wont stray, you can only hope that there is mutual respect and understanding and it doesnt need to happen. Or if you have an open relationship, works for you.
Now, as I was saying...... whose going to take the first shot with me??
Men think we don't understand women, but can they understand us? Seems like women are trying to convert men into perfect obeying women.
This seems to be working to some extent in USA and Europe. but fortunately when the same men come to DR, they revert back to their natural behavior.
AZB
Lalla I just realized my girlfriend may come with me to the get together tonight, so now I think I concur 100% with your views, I am looking to settle down after all and be 100% faithful, at least till tommorow
Wow, Augustus! I am not trying to be judgmental, but I am speaking from experience. I was dating two women of completely different backgrounds, thinking "OK, they know what's up." But you know what? It is an A-hole thing to do! Just because one of the "assembly line" hotties you are banging blows you off does not mean that you should just move to the next piece of ass and break another heart... If you want to settle down (which I doubt), go your way one at a time...Jesus.
These women HAVE FEELINGS, even if you don't.