American women dating dominican Men?

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prismaspeck

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good or bad

The guy's behavior could be an indication of 3 things:

1) Like many poeple have said, he could have an std.

2) He's dating somebody else and is cofused (ja!!!) about whether to cheat on that person or not. But on a positive note, he could just be confused about his feelings for you...but that's not really realistic, a guy would normally try to have sex with you even if he was confused.

3) He really likes you and wants to wait (when guy's really like a girl they do this to show you the intentions are good, he wants to have a long lasting relationship with you). Although there are some guys who use this excuse to get on your good side.

Do try to get some answers from him (but in a subtle way)
 

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perfctbratt said:
Just wondering.. I have dated a few dominican males(wow) and I am seeing another now. He is very affectionate and is sort of possesive when other males look my way. Question is we have been seeing each other for two months now and also work together. He is very touchy feely as far as hands, kisses, hugs.. Which most american guys arent so thank heavens for DR guys! He comes over to hang out and just be together; the whole wine, dinner thing! Yet when it comes to having sex, he says he wants to wait? He says he has something lingering he needs to deal with first(I havent asked what/who b/c we are not officially together). American guys I have dated would not hesitate at the question of having sex.. something lingering or not..lol... so any ideas on what I should make of this? Are there certain views dr has of american women? Thank you all in advance

He's gay. Wake up, gurlfriend!
 

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Maybe all of teh above? lol

Thanks for all your replies. I do not get offended or warned off that easy as most thought I would. I am a realistic in everything I do. And I know probably one if not a couple of you are right in one of the answers, just not sure who? He is a very sincere guy, takes time out to just "spend time" with me..which like i said is not usual for men in general..lol.. SO thats a plus. I am not some overweight depressed female. I am actually only 130 with brown hair and green eyes, work a great job and very independent-so I doubt he is trying to picture britney..maybe her boyfriend though? lol. Nothing fishy about us nor I.. He is just taking things slower than most guys I have dated or hung out with and by no means am I complaining-Just wondering from a womans point of view why he is acting different than most. If he did have a g friend why not just say it? We are not officially dating so there would be no problem? And trust me if he is gay-he pulls the whole being straight off WELL!! He is never NOT affectionate towards me, treats me like a lady with respect and dignity.. Guess the whole phrase he said of "the reason I have not moved forward with you/us (sex) is b/c I have something kind of lingering I need to take care of"!! G/f or whatever-just thought some might have an insight? Again thanks guys/gals! :)
 

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Sorry- Also he makes 3 times the amount of money I make a year so I dont think he is after anything I can give him b/c he has more than I? He just says to take things slow? Brings back gifts from DR last week also ie: braclet, cd, etc?? Most guys even if they have a g/f would still do the deed if offered? Dont know what to make of him but thanks guys!
 

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perfctbratt said:
Sorry- Also he makes 3 times the amount of money I make a year so I dont think he is after anything I can give him b/c he has more than I? He just says to take things slow? Brings back gifts from DR last week also ie: braclet, cd, etc?? Most guys even if they have a g/f would still do the deed if offered? Dont know what to make of him but thanks guys!
Give him some viagra. I don't know how old he is but in my profession I hear many complaints from young men of either suffering from premature edjaculation or impotency. Believe it or not, there are tons of guys in their early 30's who suffer from sexual dysfunction. Many guys are simply impotent. Talk to him in confidence and get to know his real problem. Viagra can help.
Some guys are so afraid to be unable to satisfy a woman that they don't even try it.
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You are actually very amusing and funny. He is only 29.. BUt thanks I will remember that for any future "older" guys I date :classic:
 

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perfctbratt said:
You are actually very amusing and funny. He is only 29.. BUt thanks I will remember that for any future "older" guys I date :classic:
There you go, thinking impotency is a thing of the older guys. Viagra is mostly consumed by younger guys. Older guys in the 50's can't pick up girls like the guys in younger ages. Ask a pharmacist who are the prime consumers of viagra? At least in DR, its the younger guys.
You don't have to be totally impotent to use viagra, think of it as sexual enhancement drug.
You may not believe this but there are many guys who are in their 20's and suffer from sexual dysfuntion (errection problems or premature edjaculation)
AZB
 

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AZB said:
Now here is a trick: if its the case I mentioned above then do the following.

Take him to your apartment and make him drink alot of brugal. Keep playing britney spears music and keep refering to yourself as britney. Soon you will notice (after 1 liter or maybe a bit more) he will begin to see you as britney spears. Then just shoot for the kill. Warning: this maybe your last date with him so make the best out of it.
Good luck.
AZB

This cracked me up. Dude, when I read one of your messages, I have to be sure I'm not sipping gingerale or whatever. It would end up all over the keyboard otherwise.

Still chuckling...
 

AZB

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This cracked me up. Dude, when I read one of your messages, I have to be sure I'm not sipping gingerale or whatever. It would end up all over the keyboard otherwise.

Still chuckling...
So explain to me this, if I am so funny then why does scott finds my jokes so boring?
 

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I don't think she's out looking for a sankie but thanks for offering.

BTW where are you posting from? Some of the ladies are interested in hearing the other side of the story but I have to make sure you're not pulling our leg. If you're legit I'll pass your post into a new thread.

Thanks
 
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perfctbratt said:
Yet when it comes to having sex, he says he wants to wait? He says he has something lingering he needs to deal with first(I havent asked what/who b/c we are not officially together.

What difference does it make if your not "officially" together? Get it over with.......... just ask him!!!!!
 

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the polls don't lie...!

AZB said:
There you go, thinking impotency is a thing of the older guys. Viagra is mostly consumed by younger guys. Older guys in the 50's can't pick up girls like the guys in younger ages. Ask a pharmacist who are the prime consumers of viagra? At least in DR, its the younger guys.
You don't have to be totally impotent to use viagra, think of it as sexual enhancement drug.
You may not believe this but there are many guys who are in their 20's and suffer from sexual dysfuntion (errection problems or premature edjaculation)
AZB
350 women (Dominican women on the island) were asked .." WHAT IS THE MOST FREQUENT ISSUE THAT YOU EXPERIENCED WHEN ENGAGED IN INTERCOURSE WITH A DOMINICAN MAN?"

RESULTS.....

91%......Premature ejaculation.

9%........ erectile disfunction.
There you have Dominican men, start thinking 'bout your women's needs before your own...!
 

AnnaC

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Did you make up those numbers? Can you point to the website that did that study?
 

perfctbratt

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wow

So basically from your "studies" I just have a guy who cant get it up or if he does it doesnt last long? LOL i would have rather just not had sex than know that about dominican guys! Ruined my fantasy, thanks :knockedou
 

perfctbratt

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Hard?

The only thing I see that is hard in the pic was your look and possibly your abs..nothing more! LOL thanks for the offer though. Anytime you are up for paying hola back :laugh:
 

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((350 women (Dominican women on the island) were asked .." WHAT IS THE MOST FREQUENT ISSUE THAT YOU EXPERIENCED WHEN ENGAGED IN INTERCOURSE WITH A DOMINICAN MAN?"

RESULTS.....

91%......Premature ejaculation.

9%........ erectile disfunction.
There you have Dominican men, start thinking 'bout your women's needs before your own...!))

*****I dont belive this no way , the woman are just mad because their man dont give them money ,or they just say that because they thought they where going to be famous by saying those lies.

or the person writing this post is hating. This can be .

If any girl want to test me welcone. ready . dont forget i'm A+ no lies
 

dawnwil

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AZB said:
So explain to me this, if I am so funny then why does scott finds my jokes so boring?


hee hee, how would I know? I can't even explain my own funny bone.

I gave it some deep thought after seeing this message earlier and it's even more of a mystery now. But keep on posting. You ought to consider journalism... one of those advice columns, kind of like Dear Abby, but x-rated and for men only.

Maybe Hugh H would consider?
 

Kaizen68

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"If the shoe fits..."

eudi said:
((350 women (Dominican women on the island) were asked .." WHAT IS THE MOST FREQUENT ISSUE THAT YOU EXPERIENCED WHEN ENGAGED IN INTERCOURSE WITH A DOMINICAN MAN?"

RESULTS.....

91%......Premature ejaculation.

9%........ erectile disfunction.
There you have Dominican men, start thinking 'bout your women's needs before your own...!))

*****I dont belive this no way , the woman are just mad because their man dont give them money ,or they just say that because they thought they where going to be famous by saying those lies.

or the person writing this post is hating. This can be .

If any girl want to test me welcone. ready . dont forget i'm A+ no lies
A+ you say...? the Dominican Red Cross is looking for your blood type... help 'em out.... :lick:
 
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