miguel-I know it sounds unreal. Maybe he would have suggested sex if I hadn't. I honestly was not looking for it, but it happened. I had not been intimate with someone for three years and had gone through a very nasty divorce. That is where my "not wanting to rush into things " things meaning marriage comes into play. anyway the impression I get so far from all the replies is that if I love this guy and truly believe he loves me then I am just fooling myself
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Is My Man For Real?
Hey hon, before you get all teary-eyed and blue -STOP! 
I/we am not saying that he does not feel love for you.
However, "love" can and does mean wildly different things. Even among folks in one country, from the same culture.
His "love" for you is likely a different combination of thoughts and feelings than yours is, that is all.
I/we am not saying that he does not feel love for you.
However, "love" can and does mean wildly different things. Even among folks in one country, from the same culture.
His "love" for you is likely a different combination of thoughts and feelings than yours is, that is all.
that only tell him that he maybe can get thing easy with you. why not give a try.less work for him ....
no , clearly not . I will say in other word is a reality in tourist town again not all dominican but with what you write the answer is still no
if for you is not any more holiday with sun ,sex and beach it s the better thing to do.
but if you only want to keep it like is it : have a man here with who you can enjoy your time , have sex and it s not too difficult to send him money or pay everything for him while on vacation don t change anything .but keep in mind that thing will never change .
It's alright, BPT.
In a perfect world, You and and him would be the same age, race, height, income, etc. But it never is. It is always different/contrasting.
That's what makes it interesting,,,,,, sometimes.
Concentrate on what's important to you. If it pleases you and you get what you pay for, why not? Use him for what he's worth, time and again!
In a perfect world, You and and him would be the same age, race, height, income, etc. But it never is. It is always different/contrasting.
That's what makes it interesting,,,,,, sometimes.
Concentrate on what's important to you. If it pleases you and you get what you pay for, why not? Use him for what he's worth, time and again!
whirleybird- As I said I posted here because someone on one of my flights told me about sanky panky. so I decided to look it up on the internet. I found this websight and started to read some of the postings and all the negative ones got me thinking about my relationship, like sending money, and about resort workers, etc. Listen, I am in love with this man and I asked him about sanky panky and he said I no sanky panky and that my fellow plane passenger was crazy. I don't know what to believe now. A lot of the responses to my post are not positive ones. I am looking for a man that is true to only me and that I can have a longterm serious relationship with. It seems as if I have been quite naive about all of this.
Well, you can always see what happens with --- God, I'm a little short on cash this month. I can't send as much as I usually do. I'm sorry. When you visit the next time "forget" your wallet in the hotel and tell him halfway to the restaurant that he has to pay... see how he reacts. If he's not hungry anymore......
Many times when the cash stops coming so do they!!! Sad but true. If he is a sankie-- You are just a business deal/transaction.
If you can just keep him around as a "Boy Toy" then go for it.
If not try what I suggested. If you don't like his reaction. It's time for him to go.
Did you read the sankie information posted on this site?
Many times when the cash stops coming so do they!!! Sad but true. If he is a sankie-- You are just a business deal/transaction.
If you can just keep him around as a "Boy Toy" then go for it.
If not try what I suggested. If you don't like his reaction. It's time for him to go.
Did you read the sankie information posted on this site?
I am not saying it is a good idea to start dating after several days of knowing someone but I actually knew my Dominican ex for almost a year before we had a date. It does not mean he was honest. I only saw him in certain places. He would not allow anyone closer. Was all that time I spent trying to get to know him just a waste? I could have spent it with someone who was actually a decent person and worth it. The earlier you find out who the person is - the better it is. If someone is trying to deceive you - they will do it no matter what - after 1 day or 1 year.
There's a huge difference between going on a date and giving it up 2 days after meeting a stranger .... in case you don't know, 'giving it up' means sexual intercourse.
No pude aguantar.....
YOU ARE DA MAN!!.
You know, I am afraid to ask Avrora/Alyonka why she saw her ex only in certain places.
Never mind, off I go again!!.
You know, Third In Command, I was just lurking but after seeing this funny post, I decided to reply to you.
YOU ARE DA MAN!!.
You know, I am afraid to ask Avrora/Alyonka why she saw her ex only in certain places.
Never mind, off I go again!!.
Ya contesto'.....
Now I am all confused.
I don't know which one of them is worse, him for being sneaky or her for taking his schyt!!.
Ohhhh the insanity!!!!!!.
Adios Shad'tanooga and nice to see you around.
Now, if you don't mind and since Anna is not here to give me " The Rope", I have to go bang my head against the wall!!.
Take care buddy.
She already answered.Stop lurking and ask, please Senor Presidente.
Now I am all confused.
I don't know which one of them is worse, him for being sneaky or her for taking his schyt!!.
Ohhhh the insanity!!!!!!.
Adios Shad'tanooga and nice to see you around.
Now, if you don't mind and since Anna is not here to give me " The Rope", I have to go bang my head against the wall!!.
Take care buddy.
hey, we are done with that story. I learned all my lessons. No more sh$t from anyone
I don't even know why I mentioned it. Yes, it is wrong to do it with someone you just met. It is very rare you can meet someone decent this way or someone who can take you seriously.
I don't even know why I mentioned it. Yes, it is wrong to do it with someone you just met. It is very rare you can meet someone decent this way or someone who can take you seriously.
The Monkey Race
Well, what's wrong with a quickie, huh?
(Time to fall in love must wait and comes always later, as we are told.)
Have mercy!
What can the poor women do with all that competition around?
Two weeks (Europeans) or just one week (North Americans) simply isn't enough to do the 'decent girl' procedure...
And then the sankies/sankie-lovers ratio is a bit lousy, too.
Entonces, nosotras no tenemos la culpa..... :laugh:
m'frog
Well, what's wrong with a quickie, huh?
(Time to fall in love must wait and comes always later, as we are told.)
Have mercy!
What can the poor women do with all that competition around?
Two weeks (Europeans) or just one week (North Americans) simply isn't enough to do the 'decent girl' procedure...
And then the sankies/sankie-lovers ratio is a bit lousy, too.
Entonces, nosotras no tenemos la culpa..... :laugh:
m'frog