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Azabache I totally agree with you on the fact that some people do get depressed in the first stages when they arrive to other countries and are suppossed to stay. The culture, wheather, not so much fun, etc... it happened to me; but this guy still is in the SUNNY, WARM, FULL OF FUN country called the DR.!!
So why should he be mad at the OP., when in theory she's only trying to help him get out of his misery? I don't get it!!
Unless I missed something!! Is he in Canada already?
Some Dominicans who immigrate to places like Canada and the USA have a bigtime struggle with culture shock.....the cold, gloomy weather, being isolated from friends and relatives, frustration with the language, frustration with the new diet, being dependant upon someone else for some of the smallest of tasks. Not having the money that they expected to have.....All of this causes depression that no one can feel except him.
Not everyone has the psychological makeup to successfully deal with these negatives. He's going to need all of the love and understanding and patience that you can muster up. The bottom line is that you are going to have to decide if he and your marriage are worth it. I would bet that they are.
Azabache I totally agree with you on the fact that some people do get depressed in the first stages when they arrive to other countries and are suppossed to stay. The culture, wheather, not so much fun, etc... it happened to me; but this guy still is in the SUNNY, WARM, FULL OF FUN country called the DR.!!
So why should he be mad at the OP., when in theory she's only trying to help him get out of his misery? I don't get it!!
Unless I missed something!! Is he in Canada already?