I have been to a lot of places, around the world. Still like to travel and experience various places. I enjoy that, even though some of those places might terrify you. (I do like a little adventure, sometimes.)
For now, it would be hard for me to pick a place that is better overall to spend time in than the DR. That includes the country and the people --- not just the women. You just have to know how to pick the right location, as well as the people whom you associate with. Everything else just falls into place. And no one else can do that for you.
Your mileage may/will vary ... but you get to determine what that mileage is. If it works well for you, then you have chosen wisely. If not, you are probably doing something wrong.
For the most part, your reality is the one you bring with you. (And yours is yours, and mine is mine.)