LOL, Nope Shad. Even if I did want to ask if anyone knew anyone, I wouldn't because I wouldn't want to give you the satisfaction! I had a great time though!
Women want security and balance and responisibility-which I am sure make the men more attractive.
Is this the case?
I agree with you as well - at least that is my same thinking here.
But, what I have heard over and over is that age is not such an issue, looks are not such an issue, it is more how you are inside and how you treat your partner.
(now, I think the women are more in tune with this than the men - us normally being pretty darn shallow and looks are pretty important).
Even between same race Dominicano/Dominicana I have heard the same thing. She wants and is happy with her man because of who he is and what he provides.
Not so much on looks or money.
Sadist!!!! :rambo:I wouldn't because I wouldn't want to give you the satisfaction! I had a great time though!
Also, if your "light" colored as I am many Dominican women find this attractive - even though you might be butt ugly like I am!
I am not sure I agree totally about the equalness in attractiveness.
There are many other 'butt ugly' men like me that have gorgeous looking mates and vice versa. That makes it a bit too shallow.(I am talking about serious relationships)
I am not really talking about anyone in particular but more on what I see.
It seems that the sankiettes yes want the money. But also that even the other women that are serious that a expat it more attractive because of two reasons. One, apparently most dominicanos are too machismo and two, seemingly and probably do have enough money and ability to support and provide a good life.
What I am getting at is-is it enough, or is it real, that the women there in RD or even here in NA for that matter, that with security and of course some attractiveness they are truly interested.
Will they stay?
Will it be enough?
I don't know that I would say they find it so attractive despite your self proclaimed ugliness. I would say you were easier to spot as a "rich gringo" and that was probably the initial attraction. Trust me, where ever you go, whenever you see an ugly guy with a BEAUTIFUL woman, it's most likely because he has much, much, much more money than she does. She might grow to love you later on but please believe your pockets were the initial attraction. I think that's just a fact of life.
As for you Shad, I do tend to be a little on the sadistic side at times! But with you lurking around, who could blame me? One must always be on her p's and q's.
Great examples Chip.
But how did they meet. Were any of them ex-pats? And what was/is the reason they are together?
(why does the Dominicano like the ugly white chick? lol)
Suitelady - first might I ask if you're Dominican? I'm not by the way but I just find it odd when you discount the whole "opposites attract" dynamic. The reason being that I have numerous dominican friends black and white, mixed couples included and you would really be surprised to find that this "dynamic" is alive a florishing in Quisqueya.
I have numerous examples if you like but four come to mind quickly. One a dominican friend of mine who is almost pure white Spanish but is not interested in dating "las rubias" nor wants not "una india" but a "morena"! Two a good very dark male friend of mine marry's a white lady that by the US standards is anything attractive but for him she's "completa"! Three, a very distinguished Doctor at La Union, who appears pure Spanish has a wife that is all but "morena oscura"! Shall I continue or do you get the idea?
Okay I get it
You been burnt suitelady? Get the feeling you are a bit jaded.
I'm sure sometime in the future a mathematician will develop a formula to quantify handsomeness ... and moolah will definitely be the most important variable in that formula. In the mean time, I think there is a direct relationship between good looks and moolah ... your good looks increases directly proportional to the amount of moolah in your wallet. :bunny:jrf,
you mean i'm not handsome ? and all this time i thought dominican girls liked me for my looks...
jrf,
you mean i'm not handsome ? and all this time i thought dominican girls liked me for my looks...
Thanks SL for that nugget of wisdom .... waiting patiently for acceptance to join the Franciscan Monks. :nervous:... Most of the time when you see a beautiful woman with a not so great looking guy, that not so great looking guy has money.