You are right it does sound patronizing, I've often said that I find myself patronizing people in DR by trying to have the most basic of conversations about the most logical concepts. It is uncomfortable when I am trying to hold a conversation with someone yet feel I am educating them on the simplest of things, like respec isn't a word invented by 'hip hop, gangster rap thugs', 'yo ni--er' isn't a universal greating used by everyone from outside of DR. All these things we have listed in the 'comedy corner' or clown bin which is all in good fun, good hearted gest, but 99% is something that we all notice, all find amuzing, and mainly very very true in the main. And so yes, sometimes I find myself patronizing when I'd prefer not to be, but am I supposed to reduce my level of common sense so I can communicate and go about my live on an equal understanding?
no offense, but that can be how it is, to not experience it you have to really try to avoid it.