Sooooooooooooo........ BusyBee.............
Tell us what you're thinking.
Are you starting to believe us?
Or are you hypnotized by the feelings for the chica and unwilling to be talked out of it?
If you'll allow, I would like to explain something to you.
Let us suppose for a moment that the chica you have is playing you and that you make some inquiries that prove that.
You'd be thinking,
"How could she fool me like that?"
"She seemed to genuinely like/love me".
Well guess what?
It is quite possible, even likely that she does genuinely like, maybe love you.
That doesn't mean that she perceives you as the man of her dreams to whom she wants to commit the rest of her life.
Think about it.
If this chica is fairly hot, why would she have to resort to scamming ugly idiots?
If she has some stuff going for her, she can pick and choose.
And why wouldn't she?
Think about it with your big head now.
Here's a chica who recognizes her assets, who would like to live a wealthier life.
Even if her ultimate dream includes a romantic prince charming monogamous relationship, in the meantime, she plays the market,
JUST LIKE MEN DO !!!
Are you seeing it now?
We're not saying she's rotten to the core, nor are we saying that she's a career pro.
We're simply saying that you are one of many.
What's so difficult to believe about that?
Did you know that it is not in our nature to be monogamous?
The chica's just out there, doing what comes natural, having a good time, enjoying herself, trying to survive, feeling good that she can bring some money home to mama, loving you for your generosity, appreciating your gifts, loving the sex, (DR women, unlike US women, actually enjoy sex).
Remember Crosby, Stills in Nash...
If you can't be with the one you love, love the one you're with.