Here I it goes again!
Man, I will get so much heat for this!!.
I must say that, as Lesley said, to me, education is the key to almost ALL society's problems.
I said it on another thread and I will say it again, but just remember that this is MY OPINION and that not everybody is the same:
TO ME (note: ToO ME), SOME (note: SOME) dominican males are the worse "treaters" of females!. But, I must say:
It has to do with the way the person was brought-up. If you are raised believing that women are "second hand citizens", you will treat them accordingly. If you are raised seeing your father not respect your mother, if you are raised seeing your male relatives have 3 different girlfriends even if they are married, if you are raised believing that it's ok to father kids with other women while you are married, if you are raised seeing your male relatives spent almost all their money on booze and women BEFORE they take care of their kids and house responsabilities, if you are raised believing that ALL the house's chores are supposed to be done by the females, if you are raised believing that the women words means nothing, if you are raised believing that you can get your ways with your ex-partner even after your relationship ended, if are raised to believe that it's fine to come home late or sleep outside of the house even when you are married, if you are raised to believe that it's ok NOT to treat your kids with love and care, if you are raised to believe that the male can over-rule any decision that the females make, if you are raised believing that you can do whatever in hell you want because you are "THE MAN OF THE HOUSE", if you are raised believing that you can use and abuse females mentally, emotionally, verbally and physically............... THEN you are being EDUCATED TO BE JUST THE SAME AS THE MALE "ROLE MODEL"!!!!!!!. (Btw, I could had given 100's of other examples).
I must admit that NOT everybody is the same. SOME are raised the way that I mentioned above and they DO NOT behave that way towards females.
I, all the time, count my lucky stars that I was raised by my wonderful mother, God rest her soul, here in the US, and not by my father. A great man but raised(educated) without love.
I truly believe that many dominican males are products of their education. How did I got to that conclusion?. :
While on vacation in the DR, back in 1985 (I think), when I was 23, I was buying some things in El Conde when I saw this guy in the back seat of a "carro de concho"(taxi) beating the hell out of a woman (crap, he was even biting her forehead). I just can NOT stay away when I see a female being beaten. My 2 dominican friends told me to "mind my own business", to "let it go". Others said "en cosa the marido y mujer uno no se mete" (one should not get involved in husbands/wives matters). The car driver told me that "that's his wife, he can do whatever he wants", a police officer that came to the scene said "they are married, soon they will be happy again". Others said that "ella se lo busco" (she asked for it). I am not a violent person whatsoever but I just told the mother f'er to come out of the car so he can see how it feels to be beaten by someone that will fight back. When he saw that I meant "business" and that my 2 friends were holding me back with force, he came out of the car and run as his axx was on fire. She just said "thanks" and off she went.
Did she went back to him?, I bet she did. Did he beat her again?, I bet he did. Did he got away with it?, I bet be did. Did others just stood "there" looking and did nothing while he beat her?, I bet some did. Did many think that I did the wrong thing?, I can not care less. Would I do it again?, IF I SEE IT EVERY SINGLE DAY, I WILL DO EXACTLY THE SAME EVERY SINGLE TIME!!!!.
Bottom line: EDUCATION is the key to just about everything in life.
Ps: This problems exists in EVERY SINGLE country on earth.