Hi Everyone! Haven't been around here in a while! Interesting thread! In my past work and also in my travels to several other Latin American Countries, I observe this same type of Behavior/Abuse. Living in Miami, I also see this on practically a daily basis. A little story--this type of Behavior is evident in most Latin AMerican Countries not only the DR. I have a Colombain Friend(female) She has been with her Husband like 29 years and her Sis told me on the Couple's Wedding Day, she was Punched in the Mouth by her husband of only a few hours. Knocked out! Any American Woman would left immediately but did she leave, NO! Over the years she was manipulated and abused mentally also to the point she has NO Self Esteem and she now thinks this Abusive Behavior is the Norm. If someone attempts to help her and treats her with Respect, she figures they are angling for something. She has lost her behavioral compass as to what is normal and abnormal. I thought I could help and change the situation but after a couple years I threw my hands up and walked away. I see others in Mexico, Puerto Rico, Panama in the same situation and wonder if there is hope in changing this Circle of Abuse, breaking its cycle is what has to be done. It has to be be a change in a cultural norm. I don't say that this behavior does not occur in the USA or Canada but only in my home area(Penna) its not acceptable. If someone ever slapped their wife OR Cheated they would have been kicked out of the Family forever. In Latin America, from what I have seen, if Tio Jose cheats or slaps the wife, yes its Bad thing(but not too bad) but it seems to be forgotten in a few weeks and the philanderer/abuser is welcomed back into the fold.Not in my Family and therein lies the cultural difference. After my experience, I would think twice before intervening and attempting to change such an ingrained inate cultural bedrock.