Not an attack
Larry,
I was just thinking of a situation, hypothetical, told to me from a friend. If you were walking down a dirt road and came across a family in a mudhole waist-deep, who have been there for as long as they can remember, would you offer them assistance to get out of the mud?
I do not think that the issue here is that we sould not offer the assistance, because we should. The issue, to me, is that when a group has only know one way for as long as they can remember then we (those that have a more recent knowledge) should release that to them and perhaps have the patience to see if the group desires to apply it to themselves.
Now this is to never be done with a forceful hand, that would be met with resistence, naturally. If the people of DR desire to change the laws, culturally, we can assist then we should.
Then again, my friend say I am crazy.
Peace,
Shelby Stokes
Larry said:Disclaimer: I am in no way a proponent of spousal abuse.
Having said that, I find it interesting how we as Americans, Canadians, Europeans or what have you can migrate to a particular country, identify a cultural problem such as this and then argue what should be done to fix it.
Many women in the DR dont have the options and services available to them that we are familiar with. Howmar gave a good example of that.
I completely understand and agree with ex-pats complaining about the economy, pollution and whatever else directly affects them however, deep rooted cultural problems do not AND, they are not an outsiders buisness.
We dont have to stick our noses into and inflict our ideals onto every facet of Dominican culture do we?
I am expecting a flurry or angry responses to this but lets take a moment to think about what I said before we let our emotions get the better of us, ok?
Larry
Larry,
I was just thinking of a situation, hypothetical, told to me from a friend. If you were walking down a dirt road and came across a family in a mudhole waist-deep, who have been there for as long as they can remember, would you offer them assistance to get out of the mud?
I do not think that the issue here is that we sould not offer the assistance, because we should. The issue, to me, is that when a group has only know one way for as long as they can remember then we (those that have a more recent knowledge) should release that to them and perhaps have the patience to see if the group desires to apply it to themselves.
Now this is to never be done with a forceful hand, that would be met with resistence, naturally. If the people of DR desire to change the laws, culturally, we can assist then we should.
Then again, my friend say I am crazy.
Peace,
Shelby Stokes