I have another comment concerning real relationships. When I think about Carlos' situation, he's a Dominican living in Montreal waiting for his Dominican wife who I think is 2 years younger than him. The Embassy could doubt his story but I don't see how....he sent his stuff since Feb.08. I have another story: someone I met has been living in DR with her significant other for the past 4 years sent the application in Nov.07, NOTHING. Last story some guy I met, got married in April 07 like me, sent his papers in May 07, got his visa in Feb.08, lives in Montreal now. Of course he has a College education, had a fairly good job in DR, speaks French, the age difference between him and his wife is 4 or 5 years (she's older) and he's not Dominican. Well he's here working and doing well. My point is he had everything on his side so that's probably why he was granted the visa so quickly. But he could not care less about his wife, she clearly doesn't know that. Now they're not together anymore. She thinks she messed up!She did but he was waiting for an opportunity to get out of the relationship. He is very happy. My husband always tells me '' if I didn't care about you I would probably already be with you''
Just wanted to share a few stories, that goes to show we can't rely on anything to help us keep our cool...
I'm always crossing my fingers, toes and eyes for all of us!
MBG