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AZB

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Here is a plan.

Amber, you think too much. Listen to your body and let me do the thinking for you. Just come to santiago and let me worry about your needs.
About your hubby, don't think he will have a free ride while you get stuck with raising two kids. We will let him have one baby to raise and see how he likes it. Then after 6 months, we will send him the other one as well.
Then you and me, happy forever. :)
 
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Amber, yes it does get worse, or better depending on how you look at it. But wait till you're in 30's to 40 wooohooooooo!. Then when you hit 40..............we'll talk about that later ;)
 
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I'm 39, Ana!! So I have survived the wort of it? whew! ;)
uhh.. AZB, God would have a hard time to get me to agree to have any more kids. Just enjoy Santiago and send a postcard. :)
And Tony, try and pick ME up and see how far you get. hehehehhe
 
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Anna Coniglio said:
Ownrules..I think you should start a thread on fantasies and desires, if we could keep it clean. Would be interesting. ;)
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I'd love to do it, Anna -- heck, I'd even be willing to find a way to tie it all in to the DR for Rob's sake.

However, although I am far from being a prude -- in fact quite the opposite holds true -- if I did, I'd like to have someone (Pib?) moderate the discussion for the same reason you mention. I see no benefit in starting another thread to read about the explicit sexual exploits of the same cast of characters ;)
 
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Oh my Amber! The best is yet to cum (oops)! After 40 its soooo much better. Not that I have experienced this, but I do read alot... Casual is good but knowing and being known by someone is much better. Til you get tired of knowing too much, then move on to the next and get to know them as well!..have I said too much? Or maybe not enough?
 
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Ok Amber! I wasn't sure of your age. Now I understand! Get ready for the roller coaster ride of your life! Hormone city watch out. hehehe

Edited to add"
Girl, do you ever look GREAT for your age. I never would have guessed it.
 
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Amber

I realize that I tend to be "Tylenol inducing" many a time -- but I do feel that people benefit greatly by confronting their fears and desires as opposed to burying them under feelings of undefined guilt.
 
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Ok, girls. These last few posts have gotten me all wired up. It has been quite hard to stay out of trouble so for a few years. But if my hormones get any worse, I pity any man who crosses my path~! I was hoping someone would say, It's almost over, dear... Ohhh boy.. you know. It's so easy to say things, but to do them is another story. Psychologically an intellectually, I know you are right ownrules. But.. I honestly don't know.
Ana, thanks for the compliment. :)
Amber
 
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HI AMBER

Sorry I diden't know you lived in the D.R. and oh my god you look wonderful!!!!!
I'm very new to this form and haven't done a background check on everyone.
But as many women over forty know , things start to take flight...hold on tight and try to enjoy yourself.
All the best Judy
 
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Thanks for the thread

Speaking for myself, it is a pleasurable activity that once done, the female, and male instinct revert back to their former activities.
Problem: one or the other may not have been satisfied. Solution, the unsatisfied one finds a way to make the other one feel good anyway.

Female Psyche: can't help here, evidently you have a nuturing instinct that has now become quite involved ( and the closer the male's looks are to say .... Ricky Martin, the more involved you are...)

Male Psyche: ( I can speak to this ) Well that was great, so in order to do that again I have to go hunt and gather to impress a female again. ( of course the better looking the female, the better hunting and gathering ). Always the problem to the man's standpoint is that the formerly friendly female has run off with, I don't know, a Ricky Martin look-alike,

Hint: With age it won't go away...... too bad. The girls get better looking everyday. ( not to say that there are not plenty of good looking girls in their forties and fifties... ) I suppose the females hvae the same problem.
 
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I echo what Dale 7 said earlier.

since I was 16 I have had the 'I don't give a F__k what other people are thinking about what I am doing" attitude. (This applies to manner of dress, friends, extra-cirricular activities. I am not harming anyone by sleeping with their husbands (married is off my list) and have (except for a 6 year relationship) been sowing MY womanly wild oats to this day. Not to say that I go seek out someone night after night - I don't because I don't have to.......I get repeat 'business' so to speak!!

I am straight up with men, we know what the situation is all about and removing that stress of 'Oh-where is this RELATIONSHIP going' crap makes things easy going and so much more fun. I believe another poster mentioned be yourself, and you can become friends and who knows....I met someone casually 3 years ago....we have gone on to become great friends. I have no designs on him however I think his wife might think so!!! Her problem.

Bottom line-be true to yourself, follow your gut instinct and buy your own condoms.

And it's so damned cold here right now that some body heat would be most welcome!!!!
 
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Don't stomp on me!

Ok here goes, pretty much all my posts of yesterday are gonna say something like this.....

editted because it was stupid....

please excuse my bad manners......
 
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Hey ArJay! Lighten up. You are confused. Re-read that post and you will determine that I am a different 'wood and I am a woman.

If you were, you might would understand what it's like to wear certain items that may have you categorized - mini-skirts, high heels. My point-I don't give a good gooddam if other people don't like my style. I don't care if they do not like the way I choose to live my life...I don;t live gt judge theirs either. All this was in response to the first post regarding how people 'handle' casual sex.

I never said I don't care if I offend anyone......I said I don't live my life worrying about what others think about what I do. There is a difference. That's all. And if I do have lots of great sex so what....sounds like you don't get enough.
 
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Ok here goes, pretty much all my posts of yesterday are gonna say something like this.....

editted because it was stupid....

please excuse my bad manners......
 
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ArJay

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Ok here goes, pretty much all my posts of yesterday are gonna say something like this.....

editted because it was stupid....

please excuse my bad manners......
 
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hello?

Nevermind.

what I meant to say was what does everyone think about the ending of the novel "In the time of the butterflies" ?

Actually I'll leave this one up. I liked the book....
 
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ArJay, sweetie, if I were HN I'd say: 'don't touch what you can't afford!'

Chiri (sorry HN, couldn't resist it)
 
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Ok here goes, pretty much all my posts of yesterday are gonna say something like this.....

editted because it was stupid....

please excuse my bad manners......
 
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