@ acira + anastacio
Thank you for being reserved in your judgement.
@ the holier-than-thou moral brigade
would you prefer the child being given to adoption?Ummmm, sorry bro. That's not your call
would you prefer the father to be a typical local who's going to support her with $ 40,-/month, if that?
would you prefer the mother to be one more young woman who quit school 1 year prior to getting her degree?
would you prefer me staying with the woman even if the relationship would be less than harmonious with all the negative consequences for the child?
why are you incapable of seeing the parallel to a normal divorce situation in a developed country, which are common even during pregnancy?
Ummmm, because in divorce the dad gets his visitation and doesn't have the mother tell the child that he is dead
better an end in terror than terror without end.
I don't feel obliged to get into the details of the situation just to for the sake of getting absolution from the moral absolutists on this forum, who are certain to have reserved a front row seat in heaven, but who are nevertheless busy throwing first stones - I'm sure they are without any faults, moral or otherwise.
Re the explanation to neighbors and child that the father was killed in a car accident abroad:
If you have any better idea for the woman's family to explain the father's absence without losing face, and for the kid not to be negatively impacted by the news that his father left of his own volition prior to his/her birth- I'm all ears.[/QUOTEUmmmm, yeah I got a better idea....be a f*ckin father to the child you made! Grab those balls you were swinging when you laid down with that girl and make some decisions IN THE BEST INTEREST OF THE CHILD, not your selfish a$$ best interest. I never said you had to be with that woman, in fact, i specifically told you to support the child,,not her but you are one low down, sorry a$$ excuse for a man. WHEN YOU DON'T HAVE A VASECTOMY OR WEAR A RELIABLE CONDOM, YOU WANT A CHILD. PUNTO. Now you wanna act like the child is something dispensible, like a shirt you take back cause you got it home and didn't like it. You are ridiculous, and I, of all people am not holier than thou and you can type till you get carpal tunnel, there is no reason you can give me for you to be walking out of this child's life. ]
Como te dije antes, Dios te va a atender.
SHALENA