I don't know exactly how old his daughter is, but it is worth trying to have a chat and explain why those other children are wrong, and what defines a person's worth.
I'm with Chiri on this. PLEASE do not tar us all with the same brush, some of us can actually think outside the box & be quite pleasant to talk to/communicate with.We all know you Brits have more of an elitist attitude, fits right in with the DR rich.
Tom F.
....... You expect the kids in your daughter's school to understand your mentality and forget all what they see 24/7 around them in their rich environment? I think not.
.........So do your daughter a favor: stop taking her to school in motorcycle like a motoconcho in your wife-beater T shirts. Start to dress up like proud educated men of santiago. I guarantee you that you will not die of discomfort if you dress up like a gentleman. Take out your car and sit your lovely daughter in the front seat and get in the line with the rest of the cars. Stop talking like Cibeano chopo. you sound like a gomero when you talk spanish. Start to listen to people in your golf course and see how they talk to strangers. Imitate their accent and learn their habits. Stop sending your poorly dressed maid to school to sit with your daughter. send in her food in a small container and let her eat with her friends. Let her feel equal to her friends, this way she will be accepted.
AZB
As one of the Brits who thinks outside the box I have a suggestion. How about walking to school with her? Half a mile isn't much, and you'd be doing her, yourself and the environment a world of good. Also, it's real quality time, in my experience.
I see people like you everyday. you know no one here except the chopo domincians who made quick money. Care to tell me where you had lived and what sort of business you did in DR? People like you come out as experts on all social circles of DR yet in real life, guys like you are totally opposite.Robert,
I've worked and lived in the DR for 4 years and still live in a Dominican environment in the US for almost 20 years. I ran a business in the DR and played the game. On a personal level, when I had a chance, I let the elite know how riduclous the patron attitude is and can make most any of them look like fools. Their maids usually have control over their every day lives. As far as my children, they will get a good education and will stand up to injustice when they see it, not fall prey to it.
Tom F.
Chip, why don't YOU get your daughter ready for school in the morning so there is time for a slow, enjoyable walk. My mom wasn't a morning person, so my dad made breakfast and got us out the door on time. Mom was always there after school to help with homework and other after school stuff.
If you rely on mom to get her ready, and don't help out, you are teaching her that chauvenism is ok, and isn't that a bit of elitist mentality as well?
Oh brother, here is the stuff I do:
1. Run a business in the US from here in the DR.
2. Pay all of the bills, incl. a US1200 house payment
3. Do 90% of the grocery shopping.
4. Do 90% percent of the errands.
5. Take my daughter and pick her up from school every day.
6. Take my daughter's lunch to her every day and sit with her usually a half hour until she finishes.
7. Help my daughter with the English part of homework.
Enough? I think my wife certainly has less to do than me - except watch telenovelas, next!
I see people like you everyday. you know no one here except the chopo domincians who made quick money. Care to tell me where you had lived and what sort of business you did in DR? People like you come out as experts on all social circles of DR yet in real life, guys like you are totally opposite.
I know expats who are living here for 15 yrs and still don't speak spanish or speak at motoconcho level at best and date borderline hookers or barrio trash.
You are telling me that you are any different? I don't think so.
AZB
AZB--sorry to say a posting like this shows very little class on your behalf. Why personally attack someone you don't even know? Can't believe it would make you feel good or superior in some way-but, "Hey you never know" (as they say in the NYS lottery)
I am not talking about knowledge from CNN and fox news. I had a chat with you and I had noticed that you didn't even know the very basics of what is going on in US media. By the way, I did check out your links on debunking the loose change movie and then I actually saw a video debate between the 2 parties. I had a good laugh. If you were sold to these debunked theories then I don't see how you could be a engineer and not see what is so obvious.I am sure I can act "accordingly" at get togethers as I can be quite entertaining. I have learned that some here won't appreciate my self deprecating sense of humor, but hey I'm a humble guy. Nonetheless, I am very adaptable and knowledgeable on many topics so I'm sure I can "fit in" when I need be. However, I'm very choosy about making "good" friends and would probably not pursue a friendship with someone who is so wrapped up in material things or other such frivolous things, but more than likely these type of guys see that I am a person of principal, no matter how much I ham it up and probably don't want me for a real friend either. Hey, no problem, this is a big world - we got room for all types.