"She has hit..." Not exactly IF OP listens to us. She still hasn't rung the big bell.
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You covered it all very eloquently ..
If I could humbly say this in One sentence .
The OP needs to look in the Mirror and make a List of
What he has to offer , which would give this Woman "Status" in her Community , and among her Family .
Its obvious ( or should be ) she did not fall in love with him during those brief encounters at her Job, SERVING him FOOD.
I think the OP is hoping she will in time actually fall in Love him for the Person he is inside.
But for now WHAT was it she saw in him, which would give her this Status among her people ..
Bringing the Gringo to her Family and Neighbors sparks instant questions .. If he were Dirt Poor obviously he would be immediately rejected .
So , IF he makes an Honest List of those Assets he possesses , which Impressed her , then he shall have his Answer, and let him know what his Odds are .
This info could possibly save his Life ..
When is the last time ANYONE has listened to us on this topic???????"She has hit..." Not exactly IF OP listens to us. She still hasn't rung the big bell.
Thats why some of us try to let it Run LONG , into a nice Love story , with details
but every single time some of you screw it up by showing your cards ..
,Maybe next time , play along .
On another Board , a dude found a Hot Chica he fell in Love with , whos Uncle had a Chicken Farm , and he was seriously going to sell all his Belongings , mind you at 39 years of age, and move down there and help with the Family business and Build it up for them ..
That Love Story ran about 300 Pages .
Some of the most entertaining reading I have ever seen in my Life .... We just let him Talk .. it was Epic .
Love stories come in all sizes ... and now you guys will never find out how this one goes.
I'm trying to help him .. not get taken , I wish somebody told me this when I first arrived
Kenshireen
Your age,
Yes, it's "possible",
... there's one asset you have that's highly in your favor.
Your age,
... a short term investment for her!
I don’t know…..I liken it to a business deal…both sides have something to offer
Ideally, it becomes a win/win situation
So Ken parts with some $$$$ to get what he wants?
Dont we all.?.
She gets what she wants
Where’s the big deal here other some Harvard MBAs chiming in
Ideally, it becomes a win/win situation
So Ken parts with some $$$$ to get what he wants?
Dont we all.?.
She gets what she wants
Where’s the big deal here other some Harvard MBAs chiming in
Yes, we will, because I'll be in D.R. for 3 weeks in mid-September. I will take my own suggestion and make a trip to Secrets with a trusty companion. I will be the recently divorced middle aged gringo trying to mend a broken heart. She will be the 30ish Dominicana trying to snag a foreigner (which she actually is). The OP has given enough info for me identify the target IF there is one. It will be a 2 prong attack on both flanks (figuratively speaking, not her nalgas). If she can be had, one of us will have her (mi amiga is bi). Someone's omelet is getting flipped. Stay tuned...
You really sound a Fool! And you have so much time to share your foolhardiness. Reread your own nonsense.
NOW, we have the makings for a Netflix . We had episode1. Joseph will provide content for episode2 and then we are on our way to stardom my friends.
And a tad insulting. ie; members have no soul, intolerant, judgmental etc. Gives us some insight into a man that would leave a "wify" and children to be a white knight with money as armor to the rescue. Each day I waver between smart troll or dumb as a stick real person. ????
Pictures are a must of your visit!
She is the smarter one! She is Playing you. You don’t think so right now but if you don’t think there is “another like you” …you are being dumb. And all your lustful in love comments are simply that..you are a person in Love, in lust with your fantasy). No one here I believe can convince anyone like this into thinking rationally.
Some of the posts here are so over the top it's beyond amusing. Especially the ones by people who themselves married Dominicans and then those that compounded their hypocrisy by bringing them back to their countries of origin! LOL
I can hardly wait for this nonsense to be closed as it so richly deserves.
Best of luck to the OP. Be careful, try and mitigate your likely losses, and please don't totally prove all the armchair quarterbacks right by getting fleeced or killed.
My advice? If you're looking for "love" get a dog. If it's a desire to "help or save" that's pushing you to do all this then perhaps get involved in a charity and/or volunteer work. If it's really, underneath it all, just about sex... Don't worry, the available women will find you when you're in the DR. Older, relatively well-off gringos, while "a dime-a-dozen", are still sought after even if it's just for shorter-term, money-driven "relationships.
Have fun and be well.
I can hardly wait for this nonsense to be closed as it so richly deserves.
Best of luck to the OP. Be careful, try and mitigate your likely losses, and please don't totally prove all the armchair quarterbacks right by getting fleeced or killed.
My advice? If you're looking for "love" get a dog. If it's a desire to "help or save" that's pushing you to do all this then perhaps get involved in a charity and/or volunteer work. If it's really, underneath it all, just about sex... Don't worry, the available women will find you when you're in the DR. Older, relatively well-off gringos, while "a dime-a-dozen", are still sought after even if it's just for shorter-term, money-driven "relationships.
Have fun and be well.
ken….someone just mentioned about the GF….can she read?, can she write? Does she have a book? Whatis it about You that she is ready willing and able to leave her tias and primos to move with you…($$$$$)only her and her children.What is it you need? What can you talk about every day, day to day? Ken you do sound like a narcissist. And we go back to never seeing a boat? And she lives in La Romana? Many many boats. And Ken, what the heck will you do every day?
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