Men cheat more than women

[bellissima_81]

Cheating on him does not sound like revenge to me.

Sorry Potato_Salad for me it was it was my way of hurting him the way he hurt me it was simply for revenge in my part

 

[cris]

A choise?

I guess the short answer would be because they can.

Dominican women don't have the resources of leaving and making it on their own so in many cases they have no choice but to accept.

Ok I agree with you, but in my opinion it's also a question of culture... It's normal here, so why to change guy... They're all the same, the most important thing for these girls is thath those guys maintain them....Is not only a choise that is impose to them is a choise of life...

 

[cris]

If 80% OF WOMENS ARE PUTES YOU'RE...

MARS, give it a rest; you women will never understand why men cheat. but let me tell you this, you women are just as much putas as we men. i would say, almost 80% of women I have been with, have / had serious boyfriends. so please save this BS for someone else.
AZB

Let me tell you that you have no chance.... Putas are all over, womens are difficult to find, specially for guys like you , that even knowing they have somebodyelse, don't hesitate to go to bed with... You're a really macho... Keep going....

 

[cris]

Poor guys..................

Nice subject... but in my opinion if mens acts like that is because here in DR is normal... they take their wifes dinner at the same place that they will bring their "girlfriends" the next day... Having a lot of womens means power for them... Poor guys... they make a stupid figure of themselves.... Did they know where's their wife?????????????????????? I'm sure they don't......... If they have money enough to pay someone's else dinner, probably it would be easier for their wifes to find someone to pay her to dinner, no???????????????
They never understood that to be respected we should respoect the others... specially the women's that their living with.... If their can't trusth them... who could????? Poor peace of ch.................

 

[Wag]

Ok, here is the real deal:
let me tell you what goes on in a man's mind. I know women still won't get it, but I will give it a try anyway.
No matter what a man has in his house, may it be britney spears, amelia vega or christy brinkely, he will get tired of her sooner or later. its like driving the same car everyday, its like eating a steak everyday. We get tired and uninterested after a while. We love our women but we get tired of the same routine. We get tired of hearing their BS, their drama they create out of nothing at all, we get bored of them because they say the same things, respond the same way, look the same way and get fat, become bitchy and bossy after having a few kids. They stop looking good. Did I say, they become fat and their a$$ falls down?
So what do we do? We begin to look around. we care for her, thats why we make sure we won't get caught when we do fool around. If she doesn't know, she won't get hurt.
are you women still with me?
Ok, so we wonder around and check other young tight bodies and see other intrested women around us. Its almost impossible to stay faithfull in DR with so many women available. I mean, a man has to be a whimp and a purse carrier of his wife to not think of fooling around. Now this sort of behavior is accepted among men of all cutures. men love to share their hot adventure stories with other men, especially with their buddies. The buddies cover for buddies and often times lie to their wives to protect the friend. We absolutely see nothing wrong with cheating as long as the wife doesn't find out and is happy at home. So if we don't think much of cheating, so where is the problem?
actualy, I see no problem at all. Now if my wife cheats on me, I will divorce the bitch. hahahahaha.
AZB

Let me add that here in the DR is even easier to cheat, or harder to resist (to the trying-to-be faithful). I have been caught "talking to women" by female friends of my girlfriend who kept their mouth shut and one of them even came on to me proposing a "date" out of town. I have met girls who became friends of my girlfriend so it would be easier to explain if we were seeing each other on the streets of Santiago. It is crazy here.....

And if anyone wants a clean cut answer on why do men cheat the answer is; Testosterone gives us the drive and want to, while society gives us the acceptance thus the opportunity.

 

[Potato_Salad]

Sorry Potato_Salad for me it was it was my way of hurting him the way he hurt me it was simply for revenge in my part

bellissima_81, no need to be sorry.

Sorry to hear that your ex cheated on you. You deserve a much better guy.

If you see your ex, let me know. I will prepare some meat for him that will make him sick for the rest of his life. :cheeky:

 

[shootingstar2790]

Too funn potatoe salad... where does your humor come from?

 

[AZB]

Sorry Potato_Salad for me it was it was my way of hurting him the way he hurt me it was simply for revenge in my part

Yeah and I bet you were in tears and screaming in utmost disgust from suffering to cheat on your boyfriend for the sake of revenge.
Nice story. I have had a few girls who said the same: "they were with me because they wanted to teach their filthy cheating boyfriend a lesson". Hahahahah. You think we actually buy this crap? Go tell this to a 16 yrs old girlfriend of yours.
AZB

 

[AZB]

Nice subject... but in my opinion if mens acts like that is because here in DR is normal... they take their wifes dinner at the same place that they will bring their "girlfriends" the next day... Having a lot of womens means power for them... Poor guys... they make a stupid figure of themselves.... Did they know where's their wife?????????????????????? I'm sure they don't......... If they have money enough to pay someone's else dinner, probably it would be easier for their wifes to find someone to pay her to dinner, no???????????????
They never understood that to be respected we should respoect the others... specially the women's that their living with.... If their can't trusth them... who could????? Poor peace of ch.................

That shows you women still don't get it.
Keep this in mind: this country is full of beautiful women in need for a established man, not the other way around. There are a ton of beautiful decent women for every well-to-do established man. So if she will do the same to him (going out with another man) then she can kiss her comfort good bye if she is caught. She will be sent to her parent's home and the man will simply move on to a better younger woman. Established well-to-do dominican men are hard to find and the comfort in life they offer to a woman is not available to everyone. Their women have to act straight or she get shipped out. This is the law here in this land. Like if or accept it.
AZB

 

[M.A.R.]

..and I guess that's why there are so many broken homes and children without fathers, because of pigs like you. when my mother got together with my mother, he wasn't so much in love but he knew his responsibility, love came later. Now a days men fool around without any responsibility for their actions and that's the scary part about it. AZB is right on his explanation and it clearly shows the irresponsibility of men today, women are looking for love and men are looking for sex.

 

[AZB]

Let me tell you that you have no chance.... Putas are all over, womens are difficult to find, specially for guys like you , that even knowing they have somebodyelse, don't hesitate to go to bed with... You're a really macho... Keep going....

Chris, we are not looking for virgin maries. When men fool around, they simply find the path of least resistance. These girls are not low down sosua putas but non-the-less, they are easy targets and they are available to us. You will rarely see decent domincians holding hands with these loose women in bars and restaurants. In fact, I am always alone with my male buddies in bars. You will rarely see with with a female companion.
These girls that I am talking about are university educated and come from good neighborhoods. It just seem, they too are bored in life and want some action to be kept entertained. They are no different from men that you women label. Its the same with the women who are bankers and educated career minded women who come to visit this country; do you know how many of them sleep with cheap hotel servents? Ask a sankie who are their targets and they will give you a long list of countries where the women come here to sleep with them. These are the women who are lawyers, doctors, business jobs holders etc who come here from europe, north america etc to sleep with guys who have zero education and zero class. Do you know how many of these women are actually married back home? You will be surprised.
So please don't lecture me about how corrupt we men are when you women have very little to be proud of.
AZB

 

[Ricardo900]

Cheating is tolerated

Many women have come to the realization that men are dogs and they will cheat either now or later. Even though its hurtful to them, they are more concerned with "emotional cheating", than "physical cheating". The repercussions for a guy getting caught cheating will be minimal if he plays it cool.:smoke: Women want to be assured that they are not losing their man, emotionally.

Quick story:
A friend of mine in Santiago was bringing his girlfriend back to his hotel and guess who was waiting for him in the lobby (un-announced) his other girlfriend. So instead of panicking, he escorted them both back to the room for drinks and light conversation and then to Ahi bar for some dinner. He never alienated either one of them. They felt assured, but suspicious and then he recieved an emergency phone call, so he put them in separate cabs. A saved night because he played it cool.

By the way, this will never fly with independent NA women.
"Dominican men cheat because they can" "NA men don't cheat because they can't"
"Dominican men will get away with it" "NA men will pay dearly for it"

 

[AnnaC]

Ok so you are saying that an educated puta is better than an uneducated puta. Ok got it!!

 

[AZB]

..and I guess that's why there are so many broken homes and children without fathers, because of pigs like you. when my mother got together with my mother, he wasn't so much in love but he knew his responsibility, love came later. Now a days men fool around without any responsibility for their actions and that's the scary part about it. AZB is right on his explanation and it clearly shows the irresponsibility of men today, women are looking for love and men are looking for sex.

Women think they are looking for love but in reality, they only love their children, men are expendable.
Look at lalla, she claims she loves her husband to death but then in the next sentance she clearly states that if he cheats then he is kicked out and out of her life..."its as simple as that.... very simple....". It shows that women have the "on/off" switch mechanism when their trust is violated. Men on the other hand become depressed for years when they lose a woman they love dearly. Women get over it in 123. They simply find another man and then tell the first one "we can be friends if you want...."
This is something we men don't understand at all, how could you become just friends with the man who you claimed to love just last week? So what is love for you women? I am just not sure at all.
I gather that women just want security and are scared to be left alone in life. They need a man to protect them, carry them in this techologically advanced life ex: change light bulb, fix their PC, check and repair their cars, adjust TV and cable, move heavy objects and best of all, open up tight jars for them.
like an on/off switch mechanism.
AZB

 

[Potato_Salad]

Too funn potatoe salad... where does your humor come from?

I'm glad you enjoyed it.

A lot of members here have a great sense of humor. So I'm just trying to add more of it. :bunny:

Take care.

 

[chuckuindy]

..and women are looking for love and men are looking for sex.

Like some men I do not understand the meaning of the word love. Sex is sex, with my current woman or any other woman; it has nothing to do with love. I do not believe that I have ever really cheated because having sex with someone other than my S/O is nothing more than a physical act. In no way did it change the way I feel about my woman of he moment.

Love to me is about responsibility. Responsibility like making sure the kids are fed and clothed. Responsibility like sharing conversation and the ups and downs of married life.

Chuckuindy

 

[helpmann]

How Pathetic...

Many women have come to the realization that men are dogs and they will cheat either now or later. Even though its hurtful to them, they are more concerned with "emotional cheating", than "physical cheating". The repercussions for a guy getting caught cheating will be minimal if he plays it cool.:smoke: Women want to be assured that they are not losing their man, emotionally.

Quick story:
A friend of mine in Santiago was bringing his girlfriend back to his hotel and guess who was waiting for him in the lobby (un-announced) his other girlfriend. So instead of panicking, he escorted them both back to the room for drinks and light conversation and then to Ahi bar for some dinner. He never alienated either one of them. They felt assured, but suspicious and then he recieved an emergency phone call, so he put them in separate cabs. A saved night because he played it cool.

By the way, this will never fly with independent NA women.
"Dominican men cheat because they can" "NA men don't cheat because they can't"
"Dominican men will get away with it" "NA men will pay dearly for it"

That's one f**ed up story!! Not because the guy was a cheat, but because the women went along with it.

Women are crazy!!!
Helpmann :laugh:

 

[helpmann]

They Love Themselves, And Nothing Else...

Women think they are looking for love but in reality, they only love their children,

Even that may be a stretch. Some girls just have "grandma" take care of them (the children.)

-Helpmann :laugh:

 

[M.A.R.]

Yes AZB a woman would kick a man out because is soo hard for us to understand after having ur children, loving u taking care of you being faithful to u, you go out and cheat on us.
After a woman has loss the trust in her man things are never the same again and it takes a lot of love and a big man to make things better.
I understand that a man could be afraid of losing his woman and could love her to death but he would cheat and he would be ok with it(no remorse) as long as she doesn't find out.

 

[Ricardo900]

They simply find another man and then tell the first one "we can be friends if you want...."This is something we men don't understand at all, how could you become just friends with the man who you claimed to love just last week?

This is like closing the door, but leaving the back window open. Being friends is just leaving an open invitation for some return sex.:laugh:

After the guy is caught cheating, she'll throw him out and quickly find the next guy (rebound guy) to feel desirable again, but still maintaining love for her ex. The ex is still in her heart and she will miss him "Absence makes the heart grows fonder" next thing you know the ex starts showing up and the rebound-guy is put out on the curb.:laugh: She'll tell the rebound-guy "its not you, its me, you're a sweet and caring man, and I know you'll find someone special"