I tend to agree with what some of the posters said about it being a result of todays' society, and the lack of proper manners, respect and common courtesy. I see it all around me these days, and it pretty much disgusts me. I am so thankful for parents that went that extra mile to teach me proper etiquette, put me in social situations and teach me how to handle myself properly, and to appreciate someones' kindness and generosity.
Lately, in the small town that I live, I have been noticing it a lot, so it is quite enlightening to me that this very topic is being discussed. I recently have been going out of my way (so to speak) to help someone out, no thank yous, no acknowlegement that they would be in a real mess if I hadn't helped. I take this very personally, as it is just second nature to me to try to help when I can, and to get almost laughed at by others in the town, is very discouraging.
Somedays, I feel that maybe I just won't be a giving, helpful person anymore, skip the manners, lower myself to the peoples' level that are hurting my feelings and snubbing me. Unfortunately, I would lose who I have strived to be for the last 46 years, and it would be near to impossible for me to live with myself. I have also sat down and figured it is the younger generation of residents that are behaving this way.
So that brings me to my next thought: Matilda, it would be interesting to know in what age brackets these people belong who are so rude and insensitive. The title tells all about their origins, but I would clearly think it may have a lot to do with age and life experience. Not that this is any type of excuse, but we all know that this type of behaviour is more prevalant than when we were growing up.
Marlie
Lately, in the small town that I live, I have been noticing it a lot, so it is quite enlightening to me that this very topic is being discussed. I recently have been going out of my way (so to speak) to help someone out, no thank yous, no acknowlegement that they would be in a real mess if I hadn't helped. I take this very personally, as it is just second nature to me to try to help when I can, and to get almost laughed at by others in the town, is very discouraging.
Somedays, I feel that maybe I just won't be a giving, helpful person anymore, skip the manners, lower myself to the peoples' level that are hurting my feelings and snubbing me. Unfortunately, I would lose who I have strived to be for the last 46 years, and it would be near to impossible for me to live with myself. I have also sat down and figured it is the younger generation of residents that are behaving this way.
So that brings me to my next thought: Matilda, it would be interesting to know in what age brackets these people belong who are so rude and insensitive. The title tells all about their origins, but I would clearly think it may have a lot to do with age and life experience. Not that this is any type of excuse, but we all know that this type of behaviour is more prevalant than when we were growing up.
Marlie