YES Most Men Are DOGS, So Why Can't You Live Without US?.

[SassyLady]

This is exactly what I am talking about - another project to work on But I think if they are younger - there is a better chance, they still can have an open mind and develop some sort of positive and realistic outlook.

Project yes. God, I feel like I'm working with a highly troubled teen, right now!
Younger is hard in a different way, I know - I've been there myself.
You're stubborn, you think you know it all and whatever anyone else says is bull and you're 'hearing' but you ain't really listening - if you know what I mean?

Older - different set of troubles. Layers of years of barriers to break down. Patterns and cycles that are so embedded. You've have a better chance of it snowing in the DR.
Slightly bitter and twisted at the moment, I hear you say?
Well YES and rather frustrated!

 

[miguel]

Mucho para leer.

I have not read every reply on this thread but all I can say is - Dominican men I met made me feel very sorry for them, because they were obviously not brought up properly and behaved very strange. That is why I was able to be with them - I truly felt sorry for them and did not want to hurt them. Well, that was a wrong idea. I should have hurt them - it would have been a much better option. I think women just need someone to care about that is all. Because we were born with maternal instincts. That is why we fall for those strange guys who make us feel sorry for them and want to change things in their life for the better. And if we identify that what we feel is not really love but some sort of maternal instinct - we will try to find someone who is not there to make us feel sorry for them, but admire and respect this person. Such men do exist, even among Dominicans.

Lena, please do me a favor and read the whole thread, or at least the first few pages.

I have been saying that I was going to start a new thread for a few months and believe it or not, YOU game me the inspiration to start it yesterday.

All you needed to do was to send me that PM the other day for me to realize that you are indeed a nice person but also a person who thinks with your heart not only when it comes to MEN but also when it comes to FRIENDS.

NOTE: I just want to say that the PM had NOTHING to do with MEN.

So, go ahead and read with an open mind and come back and post some more.

 

[Don Juan]

Amor. amor.

Since the dawn of time, men have tried to get into women's "pants".... It's only natural.... How best this is done, is a matter of conjecture.
The gist of it, is that this is the "normal" thing to to do when pursuing a "normal" relationship.

"Normally", when a guy wants a woman, he'll do whatever it takes to have her, even if means forcible rape, persuasion, or payment. We men, are programmed by nature to seek out the "weaker" sex, and have our way with them!- Notice the quotation marks in 'weaker'-.

Unless you're a Homosexual or a lesbian, the message embedded in your brain will be lost in translation..... It's a fact of nature that women love to be pursued and conquered by men.

The reason foreign women are susceptible to DR men is because they enjoy the attention and "chase" lost from their insipid/dull/uninteresting countrymen.
The reason foreign men enjoy DR women is because of the attention and adoration they sorely lack from their countrywomen.

Any man/woman married to a Dominican can testify to that.

Mr. Miguel, You don't know diddly as to what stokes the fire of passion!!!! !
Our motto should be: "To serve and satisfy"!.......Beause most of us do!

 

[planner]

To those posters who have "maternal instincts" thus creating make work projects ie MEN for themselves - for goodness sakes get a damn DOG!!!

Men are not to be changed, recreated or fixed to your specifications. Who do you think you are to assume you have the right to do that???

This culture is what it is. If you choose to live here or have a make work project here you need to accept the culture for what it is! There are some things you can change and others you cannot. Learn to pick your battles, learn what you can and cannot adapt to and for goodness sakes figure out if you belong here.

IF you want men to behave the way you expect from your own cultural background then go HOME and find one.

Miguel is giving us interesting info. It is from his perspective and we can learn something from it. He doesn't have all the answers but he does have a lot of them from a man's view.

 

[AZB]

I have a feeling this thread has reached its end, now it will just die down. Sorry miguel, nice try but no cigar. Hahahaha, hehehehe, hohohohoh.
AZB

 

[miguel]

Talvez......

I have a feeling this thread has reached its end, now it will just die down. Sorry miguel, nice try but no cigar. Hahahaha, hehehehe, hohohohoh.
AZB

As long as it's more popular than your "Guacamole" thread, I am happy, wahahahahahahahaha!!.

Maybe it will die but make sure you check the "VIEWS" totals.

They are reading it, loser, they are reading it, hahahahahaha!.

Now, if you don't mind, let me go reply to Don Juan's "great" post.

 

[miguel]

De verdad?......

Since the dawn of time, men have tried to get into women's "pants".... It's only natural.... How best this is done, is a matter of conjecture.
The gist of it, is that this is the "normal" thing to to do when pursuing a "normal" relationship.

"Normally", when a guy wants a woman, he'll do whatever it takes to have her, even if means forcible rape, persuasion, or payment. We men, are programmed by nature to seek out the "weaker" sex, and have our way with them!- Notice the quotation marks in 'weaker'-.

Unless you're a Homosexual or a lesbian, the message embedded in your brain will be lost in translation..... It's a fact of nature that women love to be pursued and conquered by men.

The reason foreign women are susceptible to DR men is because they enjoy the attention and "chase" lost from their insipid/dull/uninteresting countrymen.
The reason foreign men enjoy DR women is because of the attention and adoration they sorely lack from their countrywomen.

Any man/woman married to a Dominican can testify to that.

Mr. Miguel, You don't know diddly as to what stokes the fire of passion!!!! !
Our motto should be: "To serve and satisfy"!.......Beause most of us do!

You are absolutely, 100% right, I don't know "diddly as to what stokes the fire of passion". Nothing at all.

What I do know is when someone is talking out of his axx!.

Your comment:

"To serve and satisfy".....Because most of us do" is one of the biggest load of crap I have heard on this site over the years!!.

Do you call this "Serve and satisfy....Because most (I love this, MOST, wahahahahahahahahahahaha) men do:

Girl laying on bed: "Juancito, when are you going to start pleasing me?",

Juancito: "What, what are you talking about, I just did!!",

Girl laying on bed: "But, but, but I didn't feel anything",

Juancito: "So what, I did",

Girl laying on bed: "But papi, what about me, what about my needs?"

Juancito: "Your needs, what in hell are you talking about, MY NEEDS COME FIRST now get dressed and get out!!. Same time tomorrow?".

Did you really read the thread from the beginning?.

Buddy, saying that you are good doesn't mean that it's true.

We ALL have faults, ALL of us.

As I said before, there's always space for improvement. ON EVERYTHING!!!!.

Btw: To my buddy Shad"tanooga: You are missed buddy.

 

[El_Uruguayo]

Sticking to the dog analogy here. We might run around sniffing dogs butts, humping legs or anything we can, peeing on carpets, fighting other dogs, basically being reckless individuals with no care for anyone but #1. But come along a good "owner", we're big saps, we'll do anything for treats, hang out, we just want to be loved and petted. All a bad dog needs is a good "owner". hahaha

 

[Kyle]

a good owner ? that's why we men play around so much..not many good owners out there..you can provide food and shelter but that OTHER need is where you fail. i suggest watching some porn or take a class :laugh:

i will entertain myself on the plane to costa rica with tomorrow with some of these threads.

 

[El_Uruguayo]

a good owner ? that's why we men play around so much..not many good owners out there..you can provide food and shelter but that OTHER need is where you fail. i suggest watching some porn or take a class :laugh:

i will entertain myself on the plane to costa rica with tomorrow with some of these threads.

I guess I should have put some emphasis on the importance, of a good scratch, or belly rub! That is also important, and really I have no problem with my "owner" in that department. As for classes, many women have suggested I give some!

 

[Audra]

a good owner ? that's why we men play around so much..not many good owners out there..you can provide food and shelter but that OTHER need is where you fail. i suggest watching some porn or take a class :laugh:

Kyle,

You sound so much like AZB with this statement.:ermm:

 

[M.A.R.]

I guess I should have put some emphasis on the importance, of a good scratch, or belly rub! That is also important, and really I have no problem with my "owner" in that department. As for classes, many women have suggested I give some!

Those are smart women, many men do need to take some lessons on love making!!!! .......m'ijo!!! u must be good then, ay pocos de esos.

 

[El_Uruguayo]

Well it started with an older woman who had no problems with instructing - I was happy to oblige. And my massage which I have received compliments on, get this, I got my technique from a "Playboy: the art of erotic massage" video I saw when I was 14. LMAO

 

[Don Juan]

Okay Miguel, I shouldn't have said you don't know "diddly" about passion because I don't know you and shouldn't be making assumptions. But what I do know is how to please a woman. I've been around long enough to know that you can only get out as much as you put in and, believe me, I get so much more than is necessary to achieve "Shangri-La".
Yes, my aim has always been: "Ladies first"!

 

[AZB]

Why do we have to worry about pleasing the women all the time?
Just do your thing, roll over and go to sleep. let her worry about her pleasures. If she cheats on you, kick her out. case closed.
I just don't know what the big deal is about pleasing a woman. They are so easy to please, they are aroused just by your talk and touch. So guys, stop worrying about them, they are easy.
AZB

 

[Don Juan]

Because I love to see them squirm with delight. Because it's a turn on to see them turned on! Because it heightens my macho pride to give pleasure via face burial, etc, and ultimately come to know I've done my "duty"..... Sleep soundly my Bella......

 

[margaret]

Men are like fish... there's many more in the sea.

I think the reason women put up with bad treatment it because we think that men are DOGS. And if men are dogs, they can be trained. And if we just be patient we'll be able to train them.

Men like to chase.
Men like to conquer.
Men like something new.

Women like to be chased.
Women like to be conquered.
And then our hormones (prolactin?) kick in and we think we're in love and we get attached.

Men on the hand, get what they want and then take a step back and think "Now what?"
Usually they move on to something new.
When there a little more mature, they might think about more than this. Especially as they get older, uglier, balder and they don't have any money... or if they've knocked up a woman (This appeals to their fear of dying and leaving nothing to the world).
But as a rule, they are not dog-like at all and not trainable. This is a MYTH.
They are more fish-like.
You have to know what you want.
You have to find the right waters.
Use the right fly or bait.
At the right time of day.
Use the right net.
Catch them.
Size them up and decide if they are worth keeping or not. (This where most women screw up.)
You have to know when to toss 'em back in the sea and try again.
... Or move on and become a vegetarian.

And when I say "fish" do not mistake the boy on the shore for a good catch or the right habitat.

Oh it's hopeless... just becareful and have fun. :bunny:
...don't hurt anyone.

 

[planner]

I am laughing out loud Margaret.

I live by the "catch and release" program!!! Let's go deep sea fishing honey!

 

[lexi]

Wow! Are are you serious?

Why do we have to worry about pleasing the women all the time?
Just do your thing, roll over and go to sleep. let her worry about her pleasures. If she cheats on you, kick her out. case closed.
I just don't know what the big deal is about pleasing a woman. They are so easy to please, they are aroused just by your talk and touch. So guys, stop worrying about them, they are easy.
AZB

Well you are definitely posting in the right place because when you read this all I can think ,with me being a woman and all, is "What a DOG!!".

And you post about your ladies being classy? Give me a break, classy attracts classy and this does not apply in this case!

 

[Audra]

Why do we have to worry about pleasing the women all the time?
Just do your thing, roll over and go to sleep. let her worry about her pleasures. If she cheats on you, kick her out. case closed.
I just don't know what the big deal is about pleasing a woman. They are so easy to please, they are aroused just by your talk and touch. So guys, stop worrying about them, they are easy.
AZB

That's why we love you so!