Whilst I detest the manner in which AZB has to ATTACK people (we have seen this over the years that he has been posting om DR1 - unnecessary aggression brought on by HIS lowly youth perhaps) there ARE some grains of truth in his words. Let me ask a question or two & see how 'the circumstances' might change peoples views.
Is there anyone here who would expect to be allowed to enter a Roman Catholic church wearing shorts & a tank top?
Is there anyone here who would expect to be allowed into the Ritz, Taj Mahal, The White House, .................. in fact ANY exclusive restaurant, musical recital, public office .............. wearing shorts, 'T' Shirt & flip-flops???
Is there anyone here who would attend an interview for an executive position in a medium or upwards sized company wearing the aforementioned clothing???
No, I thought not. And WHY is this - because they want to get in to the building concerned (or get the job) & need to show the RESPECT due to the owners/employers so as to achieve their aim. If you do not show respect to others - that is what you will get in return, ZILCH respect. And your offspring, friends & acquaintances will generally be affected by your attitudes to others.
I am NOT suggesting 'Bowing Down to authority' or 'Going with the crowd', I am talking plain respect for the rules of the community you are wishing to involve yourself in & then adjusting your ways of doing things so as to retain your own self respect - i.e. retaining YOUR principles within the criteria set by the fraternity you are trying to enter. 'T' shirt, shorts & sandals wouldn't go down to well in the corridors of Eton, Harrow, Princetown ................. You ADAPT your dress & speech to the environment you are in or wish to get in to!!
Show respect - receive respect
Show simpatico - receive simpatico
Show the willingness to 'mold' & you will receive the same (generally) in return.
Show anger, resentment of others, a desire to be aggressively non conformist - a desire to FIGHT the community rather than working with it, & you will be ostracised. There are many who come to post their 'Fights' here on DR1 who despite their good thoughts & intentions, suffer the same fate. ~ Grahame.
Is there anyone here who would expect to be allowed to enter a Roman Catholic church wearing shorts & a tank top?
Is there anyone here who would expect to be allowed into the Ritz, Taj Mahal, The White House, .................. in fact ANY exclusive restaurant, musical recital, public office .............. wearing shorts, 'T' Shirt & flip-flops???
Is there anyone here who would attend an interview for an executive position in a medium or upwards sized company wearing the aforementioned clothing???
No, I thought not. And WHY is this - because they want to get in to the building concerned (or get the job) & need to show the RESPECT due to the owners/employers so as to achieve their aim. If you do not show respect to others - that is what you will get in return, ZILCH respect. And your offspring, friends & acquaintances will generally be affected by your attitudes to others.
I am NOT suggesting 'Bowing Down to authority' or 'Going with the crowd', I am talking plain respect for the rules of the community you are wishing to involve yourself in & then adjusting your ways of doing things so as to retain your own self respect - i.e. retaining YOUR principles within the criteria set by the fraternity you are trying to enter. 'T' shirt, shorts & sandals wouldn't go down to well in the corridors of Eton, Harrow, Princetown ................. You ADAPT your dress & speech to the environment you are in or wish to get in to!!
Show respect - receive respect
Show simpatico - receive simpatico
Show the willingness to 'mold' & you will receive the same (generally) in return.
Show anger, resentment of others, a desire to be aggressively non conformist - a desire to FIGHT the community rather than working with it, & you will be ostracised. There are many who come to post their 'Fights' here on DR1 who despite their good thoughts & intentions, suffer the same fate. ~ Grahame.