Ok, I know this isn't Dear Abby, but I could really use the insight of those more experienced than me. Here's the short version: Been going to POP for about a year now. Starting seeing seeing this girl. We started as friends, now it's become more. There is about 15 years difference between us. We're getting closer fast, and my thoughts are leaning towards something more permanent. Her are some facts: I know she's never done anything her family would look down on her for. She's comes from one of the barrios in POP. She's introduced to family (which I have gotten quite close to) and friends. She seems like a great woman, and I am very happy being her. Here's the problem: She come from a very poor background, and I know how some girls will marry a gringo soley for the purpose of getting out. I don't get that feeling from her at all, but it's still in the back of my mind. Am I selling her short and letting my own paranoia get the best of me, or should I drop this before I get in any deeper ? Anybody have any thoughts/ experiences/nightmares/ success stories on this ? Thanks !